Dedicate to my friends

On Friendship Day 
01/08/2010 12:43

Words can’t express what i feel for you But i mean it when i say; i am happy to have you in view Years of friendship or of a day i ought not weigh it with time As time and distance can’t gap; Our relationship, it would be crime Hence i put you on the map Where i have sea, mountain land, pirates, journey on death throes for gold Diamond, nearby fountain which i left uncovered to world as i knew non can steal but borrow so I look to get back, i am bold just to remind you of my cupid arrow of the wonderful love i share as friend to make sure that it would never end...

Silent Love

This poem is dedicated to all the silent loves which goes unexpressed, unmet, will remain a distinct dream, for the one who is miles away, the one who could not be pursued...yet possessed a crush off late...who picture alone is a mere acquaintance!!!

There you are, like a silent picture

There you are a pretty sculpture

There you are, like a dream

In my eyes, that stood your way

So close no matter how far away 

Having known I can never own

There you are, as I walk alone

Oh my dear, I had you as a crush

Oh my dear if I could only rush 

Difficult, yet I would walk your way

My princess I would only to stay

To keep you good, oh my lovely queen

There you are, as I have never seen

In my eyes, that took to my heart

I skipped a beat, Gods lovely art

Yes you are, If I could only ask

For your lovely hand, as we quietly walk

Down the street, as my heart do the talk

Oh love If you could ever really see

Its first time! Something strange in me

There you are like a picture 

There you are like a Sculpture 

There you like my silent glee 

In an alien land, you live so free 

If I close my eyes, you are the only one 

Who walks my mind, as heads a ton 

Oh love! oh love there you are

I wish I could travel the far 

As I find you all alone on the way

Oh love, look you need to believe this

To know what love at first sight is

Love as I just had a look, for the first sight

I don't know if I can ever get this right

Oh love! oh love yet there you are

I don't know, i just wage a war

I wish I was the one who took your picture

I wish it was me who made this sculpture

I wish I was so close to the wall

As I knock your door standing tall

I could ask you out, on a lovely date

Oh love! Oh love I would get no late

As I talk my heart, you heard it all

To be in love, It's an amazing fall

Oh love my love! Oh love my love!

Women's Day Special: WOMEN and not woMEN or WOmen

Women's Day Special: WOMEN and not woMEN or WOmen! Let me start my short message by wishing all the Women out here a Happy Women's Day! The greatness of a women is that they form almost half of the society's population and they give birth to & raise the remaining half! Thus they complete the society! Hence Women has 100% power to make or break the society! Men don't realize this hence we think about women empowerment! Empowering women doesn't necessarily talk about women working in companies and being financial Independent but it talks about women having their say in every aspect of the society; the way they want to do things, the way they feel about something, the change that they want to imbibe. Its actually about coexisting lives, thoughts and actions. Believe it or not the patience to listen, the strength to support, the endurance to pain, willingness to sacrifice, ability to care and resurrection to happiness and prosperity are in complete control of women! Their is a famous saying in Sanskrit which quotes, "yatra naaryastu puujyante ramante tatra devataaH | yatraitaastu na puujyante sarvaastatraaphalaaH kriyaah ||" Meaning: The divine are extremely happy where women are respected ; where they are not, all actions (projects) are fruitless. I don't think, there is any better message which talks about the importance of a women in our lives than the one depicted in the picture below. I was watching the BBC Documentary on the "India's Daughter" and before having seen this documentary i was of the opinion that deficit of proper education is the sole reason for such a barbaric menace but after having heard what the Defense Lawyers, Politicians & also few Godmen had to say about such barbaric acts I was totally startled, disappointed and ashamed to be a part of such male society! Let us all just remember that a WOMAN is a HUMAN too. When SHE is NOT better, wiser, stronger, more intelligent, more creative or more responsible than a MAN. SHE is NEVER LESS. Thus I am sure all they want to be is WOMEN and not WOmen or woMEN! The Society will not change until each one of us change! Hope to see a paradigm shift in the way Women are made to feel and provided space to really live! Amen!

India's 68th Independence Day & 68 things seriously wrong with our Country!

1. Corruption 2. Pedagogy 3. Infrastructure 4. Law & Order 5. Safety for Women 6. Caste System 7. Religious dissent 8. Poverty 9. Child Labour 10. HealthCare 11. Black Economy 12. Brain Drain 13. R & D 14. Employment 15. Manufacturing Units 16. Power Crisis 17. Lack of Employability Skills in the youth 18. Terrorism 19. Boarder Conflicts 20. Scams 21. FDIs 22. Currency de-growth 23. Inflation 24. Naxalite Maoist insurgency 25. Domestic Violence 26. Fight for Land; The legacy of partition- Evolution of Smaller States 27. Political System-Fight for Power-A Family Business 28. Westernization 29. Lack of proper Irrigational facilities causing Agricultural Production de-growth 30. Hoarding of Stocks causing Food Inflation 31. Oil & Gas & the unlimited need of the same amidst rocketing price war 32. Growing NRIs 33. Women Trafficking 34. Population 35. Improper Governance 36. Only 53% of the population franchising their Right to vote 37. Only 12.6 % of our population using Internet - Technology under utilized 38. sports 39. Aircraft Crashes resulting in the Death of our Defense Officers 40. Female feticides 41. Malnutrition 42. Vote Bank Politics 43. Communal Violence 44. Dowry System - Harassment & Death resulting out of it 45. Reservation 46. Godmans 47. Inadequate Financial aid to Entrepreneurs & Start ups companies 48. Disaster Management Systems 49. Traffic Violations & Road Accidents 50. Improper Sanitation & Sewage disposal Systems 51. The Judiciary System... 52. Work Life Balance 53. Govt Schemes and the gap from the intended end use 54. Environmental Policies 55. Professionalism in Education and Work 56. Bureaucracy 57. Dowry 58. Nehru's Dynasty .....how can I forget this one.... 59. Sensationalizing News & Media 60. Land Mafia 61. Saffron Terror 62. Depreciating Cultural, Traditional & Ethnic values 63. Junk food 64. Sex Ratio 65. Arm chair critics 66. Honour Killing 67. Growing external Debt 68. illegal immigrants into India

My Perspective - A Friendship Day's Special:

Friendship… A word which will always remain undefined forever; it takes forms in all material states; a solid strength, liquid emotional support and gaseous freedom to spread ourselves in all forms that we wish to take. Some of the best scholars failed to describe words like love & friendship. For some friendship is strong emotional bonding between two or more people, for some it’s about caring and sharing, for some it’s a form of relationship which seeks support in all facets of life through somebody who is there for you when you are in need of help. People might not have a mother or father or brother or sister but there would not be anybody who doesn’t have a friend; thus proving a point that one who doesn’t have a friend doesn’t exist.

I still remember the quote taught by my English teacher, “A friend in need is friend in deed” Which was the first encounter of representation of friendship for most of us. I am sure you all remember the story behind this quote; the ones of The Lion and the Mice where the latter helps the former in freeing from the netted trap because the Lion on an earlier date left the mice unharmed out of pity in spite of being disturbed from sleep.


Friendship is a very age old concept and dates back to ancient times. Of course there are some great stories on friendship from our epics like the ones of Lord Sri Krishna & Kuchela in Dwaparu Yuga; Or of the ones of Traetayuga which witnessed great friendship between Lord Sri Rama & Sugreeva. Over time and age its always considered sacred and valuable.


Friendship for everybody starts from a very early stage in life, when we were whining child; wanting to play with somebody with as much excitement and temperament sharing and seizing ones toys. This basic fact proves that friendship doesn’t require one to have a similar background or status. Let it be our parents or grandparents or uncles or Aunts everybody has friends and seeing them we realize it gets better and better as days progress.


Sighting the strong bondage that friends carry few entrepreneurs have made their way creating an enterprise which enabled people to make new friends, meet their existing ones and keep in touch with them for the rest of the life. Yes I am referring the online platforms like chat rooms and networking sites which have found their ways to make it big in the business world pocketing billions of dollars every year. Right from the yahoo chat rooms to the Google’s Orkut and The Gtalk to the ones of The Facebook everything seems to have friendship as the base theme behind the big move with optimization of the technology advancement. While interface like Skype took over Gtalk & Yahoo Messenger; Online platforms like the ones of Mark’s Facebook took over Orkut. Facebook was started in 2004 and was only confined to United States with definite people having access to it yet it revolutionized within a decade, all forms of relationships across the world, giving access to people in multilingual forms, connecting to each other through iconic ‘Add Friend’ phrase. With over 1.28 billion active facebook users which is little more than the population of India; Facebook applied for a US$5 billion initial public offering; one of the biggest in the history of technology and the biggest in Internet history. Facebook valued its stock at $38 a share which priced the company at $104 billion – the largest valuation to date for a new public company. The IPO raised $16 billion, making it the third largest in U.S. history. Today Mark’s wealth is estimated to be US $33.1 billion.


With the kind of life style that we live in and as everybody gets busier to make their way big in the corporate world; finding it hard to find time to the near and dear technology has changed the way we keep in touch with our family and friends. While enabling active interaction between people and exposing the walks of life as days progress; we get to know about everybody without meeting regularly irrespective of whether they stay in the same city or in a foreign country. However sometimes I personally feel the relationship is getting divulged as generations are getting progressed. Kids play with gadgets than with people of their age. They depend on Google for information rather than calling friends or referring to books. The dependency on fellow Human is meager and I am afraid that one fine day man will have developed technology at such a advanced and sophisticated levels that he would only have to operate switches and do nothing else and I would not be surprised to think further ahead where he invents robots to operate the switches on his behalf for everything that he intends to do. Such is the adversity of the dependency on the technology that we fail to wake up in time if the alarm doesn’t go up in the mobile; don’t take shower because the water heater doesn’t work and don’t study for exams because the computers can’t be operated or lights doesn't illuminate in absence of electric power. Yes we have technology which connects people yet we could not find a way to sense the feeling of the loved one in the foreign world; we failed and I am sure would never be able to have an advancement in technology which will enable us to give a shoulder to shed the tear or offer a hug to make them feel better.


Every relationship has a name, namely Mother, Father, Brother, Sister, Grand Father, Grand Mother, Uncle, Aunt, Cousin, Niece, Nephew, In Laws etc. Hence most of the blood relationship is very definitive in nature and people often name non-blood relationship as Friendship. In my perspective this isn’t appropriate. Irrespective of whether somebody is a blood relation or not, Friendship can exists. I recall the words of the great Scholar Chanakya who said, “Treat your kid like a darling for the first five years. For the next five years, scold them. By the time they turn sixteen, treat them like a friend. Your grown up children are your best friends” Thus some of the best friendships can happen between Father/Mother & Son/Daughter, Brothers, Sisters, between brother & sister or cousins or with other blood relatives. Yet I am sure that we all will acknowledge the fact that the degree at which we can share certain things change with association on a day to day basis with our relatives. We are somewhat more willing to share few things with non-blood related friends than friends in other forms. Often people tend to name a relationship between them as friendship when they cannot fit in other forms of non-blood relationship. For instance when a guy proposes a girl and if she is not okay with the proposal she says “Why can’t we just be friends?” And same is the case with a Girl proposing a Guy. People often end up misusing the word friendship either because they want to avoid getting into dogma of bondage or they don’t really understand what it takes to be friend to be somebody.


The Big Question: Who is a friend? What does it take to be friends to somebody? And how long?

A friend is somebody who scolds like a Dad, Cares like a Mom, Plays with you like your brother and fights with you like your sister. Most of the times its only with friends with who we share our feeling which cannot be shared with the blood relatives. It’s quite miraculous that we tend to understand a feeling as a friend and not otherwise. Each one of us has very strong likes and dislike to accept in any form of relationship let it be with somebody within the family or somebody outside. And it is often proved that people who find comfort in each other company are the people whom can pair in any form of relationship. Most of the time only those relationships work where the other person is made to feel good, this becomes very important because everybody wants to be treated well. And this is more specific to the beginning of any relationship than in the later stage when the understanding takes a matured form. Friendship is relatively more in Altruistic form. Though Chanakya says, “There is some self-interest behind every friendship. There is no friendship without self-interests. This is a bitter truth.” There might be self-centered benefactor design for friendship but not in its fruits as long as it’s carried in the purest form. The root of all relationships lies in expectations; what is that you expect from a person? And this expectation can be of any form like love, care, affection, time, things, companionship, support either emotionally or mentally or sometimes both. Most of the time the expectation from friends are not to a great extent and maybe that’s one of the reason why friendship is considered as one of the best relationship in today’s world where brothers fight for shares in the ancestral properties, sisters fight for the parental ornaments and couple do for what so ever reasons.


I recently read, as per the psychology if a friendship lasts for 6 years it will last forever. Leaving this note for you to count the number of friends that you have above the period of 6 years!

To live we need to co-exists and as long as you have a friend you do!

wanna see you happy!!!

Cant think of your eye wet in tear

Nor your voice of cry, can I hear

I get greatly moved and unripe

How badly i wish to be there to wipe

I can't comfort you as i am far,

Can't hold your hand either,damn this bar

Wish there happens a miracle to be beside you

Can run on knees just praying for peace i knew

I can't hold myself back hearing you cry

What can i do i am so helpless and shy

Feeling my legs broken while being good

Trauma of being dead while i am on bed

have been through the same

losing everything including fame

hold regrets zilch for things done

at times feel like killing self with a gun

Hope this pain in you end's soon.

Hope to see u in smile latest by moon

which Looks good on you as i see

to smile it doesn't cost you any fee

Smile, that's really when i will feel happy

I know I've been so damn sappy

Till you smile, don't mind to be on my knees

and raising my prayer for you; no tease

you have become more than just friends

I just wish we both sail with no ends

who better understand the synonymy life

if not you who else can be my better wife!

ME FOR MYSELF

ME FOR MYSELF:

M sorry to have you ignored
you laid awake as i snored
you have been longing for this soul
love my good & bad on the whole
just desired to spend time with me
bought me a gift or two as i see
wanted me to keep not just in mind
treat you fair and nice as time unwind
making you feel damn so good
spare some time to you,I should
all the unconditional love that you gave
right from ages before i started to shave
been walking all along being a shadow
Ignored conspicuous present desperado
me; with time and tide that held
should join hands and be weld
all I could just say on this eve of Valentine
with tumultuous joy of finding one,mine

I love you Vijay Santhosh Sirigiri

P.S: Love oneself; If you can't, you can't anybody else too

Poem written by me for myself as a gift on this Valentine's Day

Vijay Santhosh Sirigiri © 13, Feb 2012; 23.20 IST

Reminiscence-Lucky to be a Bhavanite

The Every ones Death!

Dedicated in loving memory of MIKLOS FEHER: May his soul RIP :'(

No One Knows when Death Comes

and no one want it to come as well

Even someone who wants to go to heaven

Does not really want to die to go there

But death is inevitable in everybody's life

When it comes, comes the stooper of death

you were trying to flee but in just vain

the trumpet shall be blown you will be flown,

A day which is appointed for you to be departed

will come every soul to kiss your soul good bye

with it will be four to drive forward

and many more to bear witness...

indeed before you were heedless of this soul.

but now we have removed your veil...

so sharp is you sight this day'..!

non is wise enough to prepare for what is coming next

DEATH WILL COME UPON US ALL, AND WHEN IT COME ONE SHALL DIE!!

Broken Heart

there may be too many things between
making us not see each other as seen
Or listen to each other as often as we could
you fill my heart and so do your thoughts would
fond memories of the times so insane
lame fights without a sheer cry and pain
little things we shared and times we spent
my heart dont miss thinking so bent
Through the years, off the days so shine
all with you i paired so much so mere fine
its been not so easy and so wasn't it tough
you have been very solace at time's so rough
and so i tried to be at times, mere able
you helped me in a way; every possible
we’ve had the worst fights, so jinx
we always know how to fix things
And all I wanna say today on the dart
I treasured you very close to my heart
will you be able to find the smile you had
can you have someone to love, so mad
this heart this soul and life you theft
grace these pearls of the tears, i left
will never ever love you the way i did
that never ending pain,I am glad i am rid
of something; everything that you were
has been nothing to me now, i damn care
if times ever swings back by, god forbid
I shall do the same you did and be lurid
for you then; would understand the pain I felt
ache of the burning wick and the wax that melt

Together this morning!

They may be too many things between
making us not see each other as seen
Or listen to each other as often as we could
you fill my heart and so do your thoughts would
fond memories of the times so insane
lame fights without a sheer cry and pain
little things we shared and times we spent
my heart dont miss thinking so bent
Through the years off the days so shine
all with you i paired so much so mere fine
its been not so easy and so wasnt it tough
you have been very solace at time's so rough
and so i tried to be at times, mere able
you helped me in a way; every possible
we’ve had the worst fights, so jinx
we always know how to fix things
And all I wanna say today on the dart
I treasure you very close to my heart
I love you forever; perhaps thats why
even after loosing everything i dont shy
as we are together some fine morning
and our relationship shall not die

An ode to silent love

Haven’t heard you speak much
Don’t know if you are a freak as such

Silently you walk,
Knowing not that I stalk

What you bore
I don’t know
But makes me soar!

Are you the treasure of my earth?
Of the pleasure that dearth!

Neither you are the member of the ramping world
Nor a belle with enough bold

Yet you made it to me
Wondering what! I always see

Lets taste the blood of Success!

Dear Friend let us dream big
Our Dreams should last till we achieve
Lost in them we shall wander
these dreams shall be our life
lets bring them together and be destined
lets forget things lets forgive people
for emotions make us weak
let our weakness be only our goal
for the achievement of our goal
lets surrender let us be slave
let us fight let us be wounded
then we shall taste the blood of success

dedicated to Md Shahid Ahmed

for your happiness might take a blow

You are the sun rays
rising slowly different ways
spread around with joy
coz you, the unknown,
are full of life, have hope
flow like the silent stream,
and float like the powerful wind
as robust as a sturdy wave
sitting at the beach side
with scorching feet and heavy tide
with an unwanted pain in silence
not noticing me on the hammock
to pave the way for merry
with a sip or two, coconut water
why to care if it doesn't matter
for where your heart finds its happiness
is your true destination after all
never crib never cry never feel low
for your happiness might take a blow

Will Forgive each other!!!

You forgive me for liking you too much, And I'll forgive you for not liking me enough. You forgive me for missing you so, And I'll forgive you for being so cold. You forgive me for the loud racing of my heart, And I'll forgive you for not hearing it. You forgive me for playing your games, And I'll forgive you for toying with my emotions. You forgive me for finding you so attractive, And I'll forgive you for not noticing. You forgive me for raising you up so high, And I'll forgive you for bringing me down so low. You forgive me for wanting to be with you, And I'll forgive you for avoiding me. You forgive me for being so pathetic, And I'll forgive you for taking advantage of it. You forgive me for not being able to let go, And I'll forgive you for never having latched on. You forgive me for having hopes and dreams, And I'll forgive you for crushing them. Forgiveness brings inner peace. Do we have a deal?

Things to do when you are bored at college

1.Practice two table this way

2x1=2
2x2=5
2x3=7
2x4=9
2x5=11
2x6=13
2x7=15
2x8=17
2x9=19

2. hide your friends bag behind the curtains hang it to the roller

3.let friend sit in your bench, plan up and shove the corner person

4.hide friends books while you knw that we going to have dictation in the coming class

5.speak in a language which never exists

6.make your friend sign at the middle of the book at the bottom and then write a love letter on his name and give it to the most innocent girl in the class

7.call the floor in charge and tell him that you are your friends cousin and wants him to be home because his grand pa who is actually dead is serious now and about to die again

8.buy loose motions pills and mix them in the water filter in the staff room

9. build good rapport with the canteen guy and take puffs and cool drinks on your teachers account at the canteen

10. practice saying alphabets from Z to A

11.start acting as if you are in love with your teacher ;)

12.Read a novel from the last page...its actually more interesting

13.get a film magazine and fold a particular page, act as if you are hiding it from your friends and keep peeping into it too often until people around get curious and suspicious

14.tell your best friend that you are interest in him/her and proposed to him/her and ask for marriage

15.ask somebody to call a girl saying that your friend is calling her and tell your friend that she is calling him too...

16.ask a doubt to the lecturer...act as if you were listening to her explanation and then finally confess candidly that you were actually thinking of something which was associated with the topic...and finally ask her to explain it again promising her that you would listen this time for sure...

17.invent a new word in english and ask your english lecturer the meaning of this freaky word

18.act as if you are not feeling well and then take permission to sleep full fledgely

19.give proxy attendance and make sure you get caught...try to fool around keeping your intention to waste the classroom time...keeping this fact hidden from the customer

20.tell your friend that his pair with the girl most beautiful but with hard hand in the class looks awesome and insist him to take action and gradually make him fall in love with her......"peetne de saale ko...lol"

21.tell your friend that a girl was eying him and persuade him so much to finally make him feel that every time this girl just naturally sees him...he feels that she is actually eying him...:P

22.tell your close friend (girl) that another friend in the same class who actually is not friend with this girl likes her so much and wants to talk to her personally after the college

23.go out of the class and come back after a while...go on the dais and write on the board about the extra class that your lecturer in never actually taking...

24.act as if somebody farted...close your nose tightly and feel nasty ...when your friend says that he doesnt sense anything tell him that people who actually do they do not feel it...now you will see him saying that he started feeling the smell...

25.intentionally fight with your friend and go and sit with somebody he/she doesnt like in the class

26.you can act as if you are in love with you teacher...tell it to your friends and act insane by praising her again and again....your friend will surely go mad...tell him that love is blind and its flowing in the air too...say nothing can stop your love toward her and you have decided to tell her after the class...act very serious in this issue...and once the class is over follow her and ask for a doubt and comeback with a hand on your cheek.....\m/

27.crawl on the floor searching for the gold ring which you never lost....act worried and seek help from your friends to search the same

28.ask your friend for a pencil...after a minute or so break the point and again ask for the sharpener...after 10 minuter return the pencil..(mean while keep sharping the pencil so much that it become the smallest of its possible extent)

29.with a rectangular slip written "I am an asshole", Pat your friend's back and see to it that its sticks on...similarly make a long tail and hang it on the arse...or at the belt

30.sleep with open eyes

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I will be your's and you shall be mine

Give me the Pain in your helpless tears

give me your silence in those unspoke words

give me your loneliness i will be friends

give me your desperacy, you shall be fine

walk with my hand as the world is to dark

I shall rob you from the moments past lost

will not leave anything undone and gone

you shall see my eyes can be moist

for the sorrow you hold making you cry

let the shadows of sorrow be up and so far

give me the dejected it shall be rejected

give me you I shall stop this walk

give me all your loneliness i shall be friends

please give me all that is sweet and sour in your arms

Give me the pain I would fain, do as you ask

I will be your's and you shall be mine

Dedicated to all my friends:

I might have hundredz of friends
U'r importance is never the least

my relationship with u; never ends

i know, this soul; u'll always feast

will ever replace you; can no man
they cant bring the smile; you can
nobody hurts this heart in your way

your deeds;your words; what do i say

Im not a scientist; to make a clone
want u sometimes; sick of being alone
wish was an artist; to carve a wax

will go shopping then movie at imax

"Those wonderful moments we shared
those beautiful smiles we all paired

never thought then,will be so nostalgic
that it dates me back to college
as friendship, love, tears endlessly pool

i never had even a bit of clue
how days passed & years flew

"facebook events" made me think
gave me "Birthdays: ______", link

ecstatic to write something on you wall
wish to celebrate by having a ball

but then i don't have wings to fly
neither do i have money,it ain't a lie

time and distance cant separate us
hence i write to make a great fuss